Dost🌱

Where some of us are busy in the debate about mental health. In this pandemic, when everyone is going through some kind of depression. Here, I want to share my own point of view on this issue. 

We all are putting up Instagram stories saying that we all should talk to their close ones and not to hide anything from them. Close ones should not judge them. Or, no one should make fun of someone's condition. But no one is trying to be someone's true friend.

In the midst of all this epidemic, we all have a person who we would choose for ourselves and that human being is our friend, our dost' and the most joyful thing in our lives is uski dosti. 

But, "I would like to ask a question"? Who is a friend, what is the correct definition of a friend? According to me, the correct definition of a friend and his friendship for all of us are different but I would be sharing my definition. 

A good friend is someone who is with you in your every up and down.

A good friend wouldn't be the one who stood by you even in your wrongdoings. But, a good friend is someone who will prevent you from doing the wrong things.

It doesn't matter how long your friendship is! But, a good friend is someone who would always be there for you. No matter, what's the situation.

A true friend is not the one who listens to each of your bullshit. But, a true friend is one who understands what has happened and gives the soothing as well right advice.

Friendship is the only relation where we can choose the other person. Look, a true friend can be anyone. Any acquaintance, your cousin, your parents, or even your partner. 

A friend is someone who would criticize you day in and day out. But, a friend is a person who would love you after whatever may have happened. A true friend is not the one who would judge you on your things but the one who would break someone's bones if they do!

But if one day, you feel like he/she is not ok for you. The right to do would be to end it. That friendship is pointless. In friendship, it does matter how many friends do you have. It's all about quality. It's all about loyalty. 

Having trust and confidence in your friend is the most important requirement of a strong relationship because true friendship means you are able to count on each other. Anytime, anywhere. 

Caring for a friend is honoring what they tell you, no matter the significance, with confidentiality and respect.